Help!!
I just don’t understand women!!
(Or) I just don’t understand men!!
These words are heard far too often. We don’t need to understand, we simply need to allow a for different perspective.
In my case, I don’t understand why woman don’t like the ‘nice guy’
Even if he has everything else going for him. In my experience, women want and expect to be treated badly. I just don’t understand!!
I follow the theories, but don’t comprehend all that I have learned
This could be a very interesting lesson as the sexes seem to have such differing views on the world, and people get very passionate about the subject!!
Any, and all help would be appreciated on this lesson
Maybe we could turn this into a discussion or just thoughts on what you really want from the opposite sex. Yes!! Apart from that!
Even better if you can send in any ‘solutions’
Simply write your thoughts and say whether you are male or female
….hmmmmm – don’t agree that women want to be treated badly…. but if that has been your experience I wouldn’t dismiss it as you have experienced it.
I think that relationships take all sorts of different forms…functional and dysfunctional…but then what is dysfunctional to one may be functional to another……
The most important thing maybe is to..give ..live… and learn… and that may involve moving on if we can from those relationships with others which harm us…or make us feel “unfree”…or which may be harming others?
What do you think?
Thank you Jan for your thoughts….
It may have been better if I had said ‘in my experience, women get drawn toward guys that treat them badly’.
I believe that as long as the levels of ‘dysfunction’ match, then all is likely to work out, although it may make for an interesting relationship!
It can be tough to move on after giving everything to a relationship – On some level you have to accept that your hopes, your dreams, and your efforts haven’t worked out.
But ’tis better moving on, rather than staying where you feel you are being drained every day, or are draining someone else.
If a relationship is right, it should feel effortless!